I know my son is not not perfect and she has had to deal with a lot of crap from him but he wants to be a DAD...let him.
She is telling him that he needs to tell her everything...who, what and when. He hasn't put my grand baby in danger, the ex doesn't want the baby around new girlfriend. I told him he doesn't have to tell her all that stuff unless it is a bad situation and it better not be! She doesn't tell him everything plus she has a boyfriend too so why should he have to. They are young and will learn that all this silliness is so unnecessary. Grand baby is the most important and if he loves his daddy and wants to be there than let it happen.
My son wants to take her back to court but she told him if he does than she will tell the court he raped her. That's when my jaw dropped and I said HELL NO, WTF! He started crying. If I could just reach through that phone and give him a big hug and her a big slap upside the head I would. I told him he has enough people who will testify that they were in a relationship and was having sex way before the baby was conceived. Plus this is 2 years later...why has it not been brought up before but now in a threat. Oh yeah because she is young and scared.
Let the Baby Mama Drama alone!